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But how does one go about finding a paramour onboard? And if your cruise does encourage solo gatherings and offers a singles’ table, will it be awkward?
Andrea Gill had both good and bad news: “Most people on a cruise have sufficient social skills to avoid such a situation,” she explained. “However, I have previously experienced sitting with two men who were unable to even say, ‘Good evening!’”
It’s not rocket science – being sociable is key to sparking up a connection onboard, but luckily, there are plenty of opportunities for mingling on a cruise.
Hunter Davies, the resident relationship expert for Saga Magazine, has enjoyed several cruises, noting you can “get very close to people onboard” with such a getaway. “Go to all the events, “ he urged anyone looking for love while solo cruising. “Don’t just sit in your cabin.”
You may also want to get jiggy with it – literally. “Take your dancing pumps,” advised Davies. “Dancing is brilliant!” If you’re not so clever with the moves, why not take a cooking class or sign up for a shore excursion with your cruise line? You won’t be short of conversation topics and it will be a great talking point at any events for solos on your return to the ship.
Top features to look for in singles cruises
- Solo cabins or no single supplements
- Welcome events for solo travellers
- Adults-only ships or themed sailings
- Lounge areas or excursions just for singles
Quick tips for hooking up at sea
Quick tips for success on a singles cruise:
- Go to all the solo traveller events – they’re designed for mingling
- Don’t be shy at dinner – shared tables are where sparks fly
- Dancing, cooking classes and group excursions are easy conversation starters
- Pick an adults-only ship if you want a more grown-up vibe
- Remember: confidence and kindness go a long way
Feeling inspired to head out on a cruise for single people yourself? Let’s take a look at the best singles cruises for a hook-up.